Adventures in making baby

"Akak tak mau pregnant dan tak nak ada baby setahun", someone said to me. "tak nak anak lagi? buatnya tak ada terus camne. dah rezeki tuhan nak bagi, terima jela, Alhamdulillah. Yang tak dapat anak, nak anak. Yang nak anak, tiap-tiap tahun pregnant ada gak. Cam kes kawan aku sampai masuk ICU, dah masuk ICU baru suami understood"

There are so many reasons why some people after married dont want to get a baby earlier. That is our scenario now. After married, they are planning want to go honeymoon first, because have commitment with their job, weekend husband and wife and so on.

But some people there, so hard to getting pregnant. They are question, why it is so hard to become a mother? They want a baby. In my friend's situation, she dont want pregnant for one year, suddenly...tup...tup..tup...pregnant...dah rezeki namanya. =)

Hrmmmmm....

"So, what's your planning now, bobo?", I am asking for myself.

I want a baby! I want a cute baby! I want to get twin babies, one girl one boy!

All right, let's get pregnant! Ok sayang, we need more effort! But, this all after we are getting married,k.

Things I Love About You

I love read poem about love. I just found poem are similar with me. I dedicated this poem for you.

Things I Love About You
by Anthony West
Your eyes
which first held me captivated
where I stood.

Your smile
to dazzle the sun
and warm every corner of my soul.

Your voice
like a sparkling mountain stream
which flows into my heart.

Your walk
and the way your gracefulness
takes my breath away.

Your hair
about which I dreamed
cascading into my face
as you leaned over me.

Your hands
whose caress I crave
to hold my face
in their tenderness.

Your arms
I long to have around my neck
as you pull me close
to your warmth.

Most of all
everything you are
changed the way I feel about my life.

I love you.

Congrats on your engagement, Siti

Here's wishing you lots of wonderful moments of togetherness now and always with Hakim.

Love across the miles

Juggling hectic work schedules and maintaining a long distance relationship is certainly hard. It was happen since we are officially on item. While living in two different places is not easy, we are committed to cell phone conversations and cross state travel in order to make our relationship work. It is all about communication. Technology has improved so much and we are just a phone call away. The important thing is I always pick his call up no matter what as trust and the ability to communicate honestly is very important.

Current
Me : Puncak Alam, Selangor
Syed Afiz : Sedenak, Johore

2009
Me : Seri Iskandar, Perak ; Kuala Lumpur
Syed Afiz : Sedenak, Johore ; Tawau, Sabah ; Pulau Carey, Selangor

2008
Me : Skudai, Johore
Syed Afiz : Pulau Carey, Selangor ; Tanah Merah, Negeri Sembilan

2004-2007
Me : Skudai, Johore ; Kuala Terengganu, Terengganu
Syed Afiz : Klang Valley ; Kuala Kangsar, Perak

It is difficult to be living apart. We love each other so much and we enjoy doing so many things together so yes it hasn’t been easy. However, there will come a day when we will live in the same crib and we will get to spend every minute of our time together. It is hard but it has its perks. I want to be with Syed Afiz every minute but we understand that is what we have to do as we both work in different places. The good thing is we don’t fight over silly things that couples usually do.



There were always ways to keep our relationship stronger and more special.

Something will be missing when she married

The memory is still fresh in my mind. I went to Pulau Pinang to attend the training at JMTI. Someone smiling at me and offering her friendship that lasts until today. She is Sara.



Now, she's engaged.



Congrats on yous finding soul mate.



She is very soft spoken, kindly and good listener. I will be missing you sara after you are married. Maybe no more hang out, sleeping together again.

A little hero !

Last night I was watching Bulentin Utama, TV3. Something attract me to post at my blogspot here. Carlos, a 7 year old boy who called 911 during a home invasion robbery as armed robbers threatened his parents poses.

"There's some guy. He's gonna kill my mom and dad. Can you come?" Carlos said over the phone, "bring soldiers, too!"

He said to sheriff's dispatcher "bring soldiers, too". (hmmm...habisla perompak tu..kahkahkahkhakahh)

The important here, one of the challenges you have as a parent is to help your child acquire the skills to work through whatever obstacles life presents. Teaching your child how to use 911 in an emergency could be one of the simplest and most important.

PhD or become a teacher

Ya Allah, sesungguhnya Engkau lebih Maha Mengetahui. These are the things in life which I will have to make in order to decide what’s best for me. It is important to weigh the options I have carefully. Looking back, I am blessed to have lived the life I live.

I got interview to further PhD. My TDA, PM Dr B, asked me why I didn't attend the interview. They were waiting me.

I'm sorry Dr B. There are many such thing I need to settle. I am very sad and also regret did not attend this interview (hanya Allah saja yang tahu) too. But, I believe and sure, life has got its up and down. But I know Allah is always there, guiding me, and giving His best, for me and my future.

The most beautiful, sexy, manly I like

Kim



Nicole



Aish



Nacho



Cyril



Prisoner

What do you think? Any comments?

Conversation with Man

When you looking me into the eye.


See !




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Happy Bithday to Juliana ~ 11.3.1986

On your birthday I wish you much pleasure and joy. I hope all of your wishes come true. May each hour and minute be filled with delight and your birthday be perfect for you. Hope our friendship never end.

Tips for honeymoon

Married is such thing possible? Take the time to truly develop, take care of and preserve the intimacy of our relationship, learn to roll with the ups and downs and we will enjoy the warmth and tenderness of the relationship we want and deserve. Afiz, do you remember when you first got together with me? You made the time to plan dates and enjoy each other. Love and romance was alive and blooming in our relationship.

I had found some tips for those who want to go for honeymoon.

Plan Ahead - Make your reservations at least 6 months ahead if possible. This allows you to get early booking discounts, and get the type of room that you want and the best flight times and rates. MATTA Fair or offers made by AirAsia for advance purchases could do the trick if you would like to save costs.

Budget - Splurge but don't overburden yourself. This is a trip you'll remember the rest of your life. You'll always remember the honeymoon, but you'll forget how much you spent. All-inclusive resorts and cruises make your budgeting much easier, because these packages include practically everything and prevent you from overspending. Consider activities you are interested in, beach bumming, golf, snorkeling, nightlife, breakfast in bed, bicycling, scuba, jetskiing, exploring ancient ruins etc. Sentosa Island in Singapore and Pulau Perhentian in Malaysia have been very popular with foreign tourists. While Paris has been well-known around the world as a romantic city


Photographs - Force yourself to take as many pictures as you can stand. You'll be happy you did. While she is asleep, as soon as she wakes up or washing her face. You will treasure every moment.


Check your Calendar - How long do you want to be gone? If you can only be gone for a few nights, look for something close. If you're planning for one week, try to limit your transportation time. If you have a few weeks, the whole world opens up.

Food - Dining is always near the top of the list for vacationers, especially honeymooners. Make sure you'll be able to have pleasurable dining experiences.

Surprise or not to Surprise - Planning a surprise honeymoon is very risky. Use extreme caution. Make sure you know it will be a pleasant suprise, or the surprise might be on you. Friends and Family are great resources for honeymoon ideas.

Plan to relax - Especially on the first day. Unwind. Smell the roses. Enjoy each other. Weddings tend to be stressful. The honeymoon should be stress free. Don't argue about silly stuff. If one of you prefers to do one activity and you the other, make compromises. After all, that is what marriage is all about.



Accommodations - Book the best room that you can afford! We do prefer to put you at the best resort possible within your budget even if we have to put you in a room without an ocean view. The resorts, however, are always telling us about how many clients try to upgrade once they arrive and see the beachfront rooms.



Packing - Always put some of her clothes in his bag, and put some of his clothes in her bag just as a precaution. Never pack valuables such as jewellery and cameras. Carry them. Pack a carry on bag with valuables, prescriptions, suntan lotion, swimwear, travel documents, and sunglasses, just in case you have to wait for your rooms.

So, yayang! Abang plan nak honeymoon kat mana? Kat sini?



If your budget not enough, can you do the decoration like this? =p For your information, I love fresh flowers, candles and fragrance.




“Sesungguhnya dunia ini adalah suatu tempat keseronokan dan sebaik-baik keseronokan itu ialah wanita yang solehah”-(riwayat Muslim dan Nasa’i)

Miss...miss.....and miss you so much from Miss Hazira

Before I come to Puncak Alam, I was at Seri Iskandar. One of the group I love teaching is group SK5B and SK6A. Before finish one semester, they are do farewell party for me. We are eating, jumping in class and laughing. They are make class most cheerful.









Can you find me? Am I used to be a lecturer like this? Ahakss...hakhaasskhaha...

One, Two (JUMP), Three (Take a picture) YEAAAH!!!







~ulat gonggok~



~Chak!!!~



~James bond~




~Flying Kiss~



You make me proud. I always pray for you. Hope we can meet and hang out together again.

Thank you for my parent

The most brilliant flower in the garden of life is my Mom and my Dad life. You held me close when I was ill, you showed me laughter, gave me a pill. When I would cry you would wipe my tears, you would say now, now and calm my fears.

Mama Abah,
You are the BEST you couldn't be better. You beat all the rest.

LOVE,
First daughter.

Broken Heart

Broken hearts are never healed. They haunt us for a lifetime even if we find someone else. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more aware and more human. Why then do we feel so hurt knowing it can only get better?

Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to go through. Dealing with the pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the past.

What is this feeling I have? I seem to love you, but other times I seem to loathe you. I can't be without you or maybe just without anyone. I think about you all the time. But why do I have this feeling? I long for your voice.But is this love or merely lust?

I don't really want to say goodbye and want to leave you. But now I have to go away, stay away from you forever. What we had was something special deep down from our hearts. But now I have to go away and leave you from my heart.

Workaholic Man

He is very addicted to his work during practical until at his workplace now at Sime Darby Plantation. Look at all this picture. You can be a role model for our babies, papa....aaaahhhh =)